One thing that has always confused me over the years is bullying. I believe this is a very big social issue that is not necessary to be so heard about and experienced. Im raised that if you don't have something nice to say than keep it to yourself. Not saying that i'm always kind but i know to not nag on someone making them feel less about themselves. I know to not gain up on someone and make them feel upset about the person they are.
In today's society the ones that are different are looked down upon. This is why we have many people that change themselves so they will be accepted and cared for. If it's one thing I learned it is that it is much better to be yourself and happy than turn into someone else. This is why people should not bully each other. Being unique and different is running scarce due to the hateful words of other people. No matter what their will always be someone that isn't satisfied with you. By being yourself you find the right friends and life supporters by turning into someone else in time you will realize that the people you are surrounded by are phony and their characteristics will not match your true self. This is what i would tell people that have been bullied or are currently being bullied. I know that I am doing good when i compliment people, even putting the smallest grin on someone can make a difference to them since you do not know what a person can be dealing with , whether it is being bullied at home , in school, or online. So many suicides have been because of bullying i do believe that a person is selfish to take their own life and leave their loved ones heartbroken because it will get better. Maybe not by next week or in a month but eventually the bullying will stop and people should grow and become strong with showing bullies that they did not win the ongoing battle. Another thing that puzzles me is how greatly the social media can damage people. Not even by someone attacking another with words because that does occur and hurt people but by showing trends. Online when some people see whats popular and what is seen as pretty and ugly is that can develop self hatred of not being good enough or important in society.
I've been bullied before and I have bullied but than realized how wrong it is to make someone feel bad. individuals should leave each other alone. Not everyone is going to love what you do or how you act so if you do not like what someone is doing than you should not make them feel bad and let them be happy by being themselves. Im confused at how people can be so cruel and insecure to put other people down just to feel better about themselves. I'm curious to learn what other ways people get bullied and how far people go out of their way to cause it.
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